5 positive statements to 1 negative.

Praise success and effort!

Give clear, specific directions; broken down into small steps.

Stay Calm! Use a calm voice, nagging gets nowhere.

Set reasonable limits - avoid using "always" or "never" - stick to your limits!

Be consistent! Yes means Yes, and No means No!

Set the example - Actions speak louder than words!

Interact - so you don't have to react.

Have Patience - a little goes a long way!

Breathe! Relax! Smile! HAVE FUN!!